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Comfort zones

One thing I've learned that has helped me in so many areas of my life: That it's good to push myself beyond my comfort zone on a regular basis.

Sometimes I fall flat on my face. Many times, actually. But sometimes I don't and then wonderful things happen, and my comfort zone gets a bit bigger.



Birthday card from my friend Cathy

Had a fine birthday yesterday, starting with a breakfast made by Jeff:

Jeff had been up late gaming the night before so I had told him he didn't need to wake up early, but he did anyway. The sweetie.

Have I mentioned he makes the best coffee?

My sister Ruth took me out to Patisserie La Cigogne for lunch, and in the afternoon I did some book project work.

Later in the afternoon, I decided to be lazy and watch some Bletchley Circle in bed. I only recently came across this British series while browsing Netflix, and was intrigued by the intelligent writing and the strong female characters.

Then I napped. I'm a Master Class napper, in case you didn't know, which is yet another reason I love Ruth's new SSH! MY BROTHER'S NAPPING picture book (launches from Scholastic Canada this week!) so much:

In the evening, Jeff and I went to my favorite restaurant in Toronto, Café Pleiade (557 Mount Pleasant Ave, Toronto). You can read the review of Café Pleiade I did for blogTO back in 2007. What I love about the restaurant: the fantastic food and the cozy atmosphere. Our favorite seat is the cushioned alcove by the front window.

Jeff and I have gotten to know the owners over the years, and I was delighted to find out that the chef (Stavros Tsimicalis) is a published poet!

A wonderful day, and I felt very spoiled.



My friend Errol Elumir is the biggest Studio Ghibli Fan ever (please help me prove it by casting a vote)

I created the image above in honor of my friend Errol's birthday because of his obsession with Studio Ghibli :-)

Some of you may have heard me talking about my friend Errol, who is my creative doppelgänger as well as being one of the most positive, sweetest people I know. He and his daughter helped create the I'M BORED book trailer music video for me. 

Anyway, The Toronto Film Festival (TIFF) is holding a Studio Ghibli Contest to find the biggest Studio Ghibli fan; reward: tickets to see 10 Studio Ghibli films at the TIFF Lightbox. Errol and some of his friends put together a fantastic graphic compilation of Why Errol Elumir Is The Biggest Studio Ghibli Fan Ever so people could vote, but the TIFF interface was such that the graphic ended waaaay too tiny for people to read. :-(

Errol gave me permission to post his comic below. If my friend's Studio Ghibli Fan obsession amuses, delights or horrifies you, I urge you to go over the to Errol's Studio Ghibli Contest TIFF page and vote for him. You can see the other entries as well -- all admirable, of course! But not nearly as Studio Ghibli-crazed as Errol's, in my opinion. :-)

See what I mean? If you agree that my friend Errol is the Biggest Studio Ghibli Fan, please take a moment to vote.


Yet another advantage of getting older

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As I get older, I find that I don't care quite as much about what other people think.

Of course I still CARE. You won't see me romping about the streets in my pajamas, as much as I like wearing my pajamas. (Side note: interesting that my Mac tries to autocorrect the word "pajamas" to the British spelling "pyjamas").  I just don't quite care as obsessively as I did when I was younger.

Part of this is due to the fact that I'm more confident than I was years ago. Part of it is because I realize now that there are WAY more important things I can be stressing about other than what people are thinking of me.

Even if I tried to convey this message to my younger self, there's no way I would have listened to the older me.

The whole "don't worry so much about what other people think" can also be applied to creative work. It's hard not to want to read every review, constantly check sales levels, compare yourself to others…but if you get too caught up in how other people judge you, then you're just asking for a lot of angst. I don't know about the rest of you, but I find it necessary to shut all that out when I'm trying to do something truly creative.


Anniversary :-)

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